The message is simple! You are loved, regardless of what mistakes you have made. Your are loved regardless of how think you look. You matter and it may seem at times you are alone, but you are not. People may not going around announcing, but it is Simple we are all in this together. I hope on this day, you feel loved, loved your self and always try your best to get out their and start Loving One Another !!!
Thursday, December 25, 2014
Sunday, December 21, 2014
Cure the Disease not the Symptom
In
recent weeks I have come across many articles talking about Florida and its
prison population and most of the articles showed a direct correlation between
failing students and youth in prison.
Harvard Journal of Hispanic Policy discussed how students who were doing
poorly in school would be funneled into the prison system, “Schools indirectly
drive children into the juvenile justice system by criminalizing a wide variety
of student behavior, including behavior as minor as tardiness, absences,
noncompliance, and disrespect” (Castillo). Most of this minor behavior will
evolve into a life time of crime, but if we establish better policies in school
we can stop this trend of turning students into prisoners.
The
prison industrial complex in the United States continues to grow and expand, not
because of a growing rate of criminals but because a growing rate of repeat
offenders. “More than fifty percent of prisoners will be arrested again just
after sixteen months of their release” (Barret). This statistic shows that the
prison industrial complex is not resolving the psychological issues of our
inmates. After years of incarceration, inmates become well-adjusted to the
prison life style and cannot assimilate back to the civilian life style. In
order to resolve this growing problem we must start reforming our schools
because it is often delinquent children who grow into offending adults. In
Florida it seems like a trend that the students go directly from the school
system into the prison industrial complex. Most of the repeat violent offenders
have a history of violence that trails back to their childhood. If we started
providing counseling and alternative methods of discipline for our at risk
youth, we will be able to control the rising prison population. “It is easier
to build strong children than to repair broken men” (Frederick Douglass).
Some
schools in Florida look at all students acting out in a black and white manor
allowing no room for a shade of grey. Regardless of what is going in in the child’s
life, the child is at fault and needs to be punished. Many examples were found,
in a one example, “a six year old was handcuffed, arrested, and driven away
from school after throwing a tantrum in her kindergarten class. Because of her
small stature, the handcuffs were placed around her biceps. She was
subsequently taken to county jail, fingerprinted, had a mug shot taken, and was
charged with a felony and two misdemeanors” (Walter, S., Lambie, G. &
Ngazimbi, E.). Regardless of the child’s age or reason for acting out, the 6
six year old was severely punished. In other cases children were placed in
jail, with criminals. Regardless of if the child gets his or her record
expunged at the age of 18, the child will have to live with the trauma of being
incarcerated. In addition to that, the child will only have more resentment
towards the school and this will cause more out breaks. For some children the
school is the only safe place they know they can get a full meal and be safe.
Not
all students are bad, most students who act out have not been taught proper way
of managing their emotions. In many cases, children acting out were showing
symptoms of child abuse. The scholarly journal A Choice Theory Counseling Group Succeeds with Middle School Students
Who Displayed Disciplinary Problems exposes how school may be the child’s
last safe place and chastising a student may push that child into the dark.
Some other methods of disciplining students have shown great promise such as
Reality Therapy, “Reality Therapy may be seen as the implementation of Choice
Theory, where the educator teaches students the basic tenet of Choice Theory:
the only person I can control is myself” (Walter, S., Lambie, G. &
Ngazimbi, E.) After taking these lessons a student is better fit for the rigors
of life and can adjust better to the school environment. Students have strengths and weaknesses across
the board when it comes to school, but when it comes to emotional health the
school disciplinary system is blind to this. Not all students have the same
emotional capabilities, so it is unfair to judge with the same rules as regular
students. Some student come from unstable homes, “We must understand their
needs. In addition to their physical needs - food, clothing, and shelter - kids
need fun, freedom, power, and a sense of belonging. If these needs aren't met
in positive ways, problems develop” (Diana Browning Wright). The main problem
with the school system is its consistent failure to flag down students who show
signs of learning difficulties at an early age. Once a child is discovered as
an at risk youth, the school should be notified that this student should be
viewed under special conditions. Children are resilient but only if they have
the tools .Teaching students that they have control over their own live is an
empowering experience for the students.
The
issue of school policies and its disciplinary methods being indifferent toward
the plight of all students is as relevant today as it was in the past. We must
all come together to ensure the student have the power to develop their own
wellbeing psychologically. A poem that resonates with me and this topic is
Invictus by William Ernest Henley because everyone deserves the right tools, to
make sound judgment. Every student deserves a chance and a part of this poem
expresses that we are all in charge of our lives “Beyond this place of wrath
and tears looms but the Horror of the shade, and yet the menace of the years
finds and shall find me unafraid I am the master of my fate, I am the captain
of my soul.”(Henley)
Works Cited
Barret, D. “Prison Firm
CCA Seeks to Reduce Number of Repeat Offenders.” Wall Street
Journal.
12 Sep. 2014. http://online.wsj.com/articles/prison-firm-cca-seeks-to-reduce-number-of-repeat-offenders-1410561176
Castillo,
Jennifer. "Tolerance in Schools for Latino Students: Dismantling the
School-to-Prison
Pipeline." Harvard
Journal of Hispanic Policy 26
(2014): 43-58. ProQuest. Web. 2 Dec. 2014.
Walter, S., Lambie, G.
& Ngazimbi, E. “A Choice Theory Counseling Group Succeeds with
Middle
School Students Who Displayed Disciplinary Problems.” Middle School Journal, 40(2),
4-12. Nov. 2008. Retrieved from http://search.proquest.com.ezproxy.saintleo.edu/docview/217441116?accountid=4870
Wright, B, Diana.
“Changing Children's Behavior in School” Great
Schools. Web.2012
Henley, W, William.
“Invictus” Poetry Foundation. Web.
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http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poem/182194
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