Love is natural, and love is simple even animals are capable
of love. Why do we make love into this maze, or Rubix cube? Where does the
convolution of love spawn?
I believe that love gets entangled, in the ideas of what we
think should be and what is. In truth, you are a young man or woman whose life
focus should be maintaining homeostasis but in actuality you are out trying to
find love based on pretense. When you choose a mate, your mind subconsciously
goes through every movie you watched, book you've read, etc. So we walk around
with the preconceived notion that every love should be a replica of the
prescribed love provided in pill form by mass media that we've ingested.
Every failed relationship becomes a striking resemblance, to
when we found out Santa Claus was not real. Now please do not take this wrong,
I do believe in love, and I do believe it not only exist but it is necessary
for survival. Love has become an addiction and not real love but the pill form
love. Think about it, all the dating sites and finding love sites created,
"that is easy money for anybody with the soulless intent inspired by
making money off of desperate people and their attempts to find love."
What I am saying is love takes time, and most people will
falter because patience is a virtue we lack. If you are American the need to go
faster is intoxicating, so when the prospect of love comes into our midst we
swarm over it. It is only human to fall to such a stimuli, so no one should
feel ashamed for falling, falling in love.
If you are male or female, the first kiss is coming into an
endless sea of bliss and euphoria. Now it is once again only human to assume
that intercourse is worse than a kiss, but in all actuality the kiss is the
beginning of love.
